Some men may think that there is a trick to learning how to talk to girls, but the truth is that it can be as easy as saying hi. That is my one proven pick up line: no rehearsed stories, no clever wordplay, just come up to someone who caught your eye and say that one syllable word.
Talking to girls can be as simple as that, but learning how to make her fall in love with you can be something different entirely. You need to form a connection, one that she can invest herself in, and to do that, you need to give her an experience.
That experience starts on a first date. Once you have approached a girl, once you have her number, the next step is to move forward and meet up with her again. Have some coffee, take a walk, there is literally an infinite number of date ideas to work with, but just make sure that you spend some time with her.
Begin talking, and think about what you can say that will make her want to be a part of your life. Do not talk about how boring your job is, or how exhausted you are after certain days, the point of these early dates is to intrigue her, and nobody is intrigued by complaining about a routine.
The second important thing to remember is that you want to avoid bragging too much, or sounding too forced and insincere with your conversations. I know it is a lot to take in, but this is crucial to remember, because women will know when you are not being genuine.
Do not brag about other women, because this never works. Women like a man who likes ladies, but not a ladies’ man. They know that a ladies’ man will try to prove that he is good with women to women. Instead, they want to spend time with a man that loves spending time with women.
Talk about your hobbies, about your plans for the future. This is the sort of thing that she will want to be a part of. She will want to know that you are driven and motivated and that you have plans for yourself outside of women, despite how apparent it is that you enjoy spending time with them.
This is the sort of thing that she will want to help you turn into a reality. What your exact vision is usually does not matter, so long as you have a vision, one that you can include her in, and not build around her.
One of the best quotes that I can think of that relates to this is that women want to be a part of an adventure. They do not want to be the adventure. Remember that you are talking about your future, one that she can be a part of, but one that is ultimately yours. Speak with enthusiasm and passion and she will not be able to resist imagining herself as a part of it.